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YELLOW
DESCRIPTION
Sexuality is characterized by passion, enthusiasm and self-confidence. Command, control, management, mastery and consent, manipulative, trust, submission, validation.
THE ADVANTAGE OF YELLOW
- You know what you like.
- You know what you don't like.
- You have good self-confidence and self-esteem in my sexuality
- I take initiative in my sexuality
- The sexuality can also be expressed through physical pain when, for example, bites, whips, etc. The point of the pain is that it is perceived as an enhanced pleasure if one is sufficiently excited and confident in the person who exercises it.
CHARACTERISTICS
- Yellow sexuality is about sexual confidence and taking control
- or giving up control
- It brings in competition and one party taking more control and command over the sex, and the dynamic.
- Experimenting with sex to expand the sexual landscape.
- BDSM is an expression of surrender / dominance / submission. The way passion is expressed is example; biting, spanking, binding, taking control over the partner's senses.
- The sexual experience can be giving up control, and taking it.
- It can also be dominance from one part.
- Polarity play.
SEX
Might get intense, passionate, raw, with elements of BDSM.
SEX POSITIONS
Especially positions where one has full control, for example when the woman rides the man.
METAPHOR
It's like a game, where one leads and the other surrenders.
EXPRESSION
- Strong stimuli
- Yellow's are confident in their own sexuality.
- You know what you like.
NEGATIVE SIDES
- May be too selfish or take too much control of their own pleasure.
- If you have sex on the basis that you alone are going to enjoy it, and you are going to have a good time, you can lose the good couple interaction.
- Aggression, violence or dominance.
- Coming from our ego.
- I want to be good in bed, overachieve.
- I will decide over the other person.
- User of power and manipulation
- Be aware that elements of this type of sexuality can have harmful consequences if you have had psychological challenges or trauma from the past.
- If you are very stressed or traumatized, the yellow sexuality can trigger old traumas in you.
- It is important to have aftercare so that you can check in with your partner that what has happened was with consent and that you have not broken any kind of boundaries.
HOW TO HANDLE IF PARTNER IS A DIFFERENT COLOR?
- Be aware that the yellow doesn't push the partner into something that they don't want to be a part of
- If you are yellow and in a relationship where your partner does not have any form of yellow sexuality, it can be difficult to create balance.
- It is important to discuss how the person with yellow sexuality can find an outlet for his yellow sexuality when they cannot be met by his sexual partner.
TOOLS
In what ways can one relinquish control? How to create awareness around needs, wishes, fantasies? How can you use dominance to expand your consciousness, and that of your partner(s).
Blind fold
Role play
Binding
Shibari
BDSM
Consent
WHICH COLORS ARE RECOMMENDED TO TEST IF YOU ARE YELLOW?
GREEN
Which colors do we think you will have the most challenge to test out if you are the color yellow?
BLUE, PURPLE
COLOR SHADE FROM LIGHT TO DARK
The bright yellow sexuality is characterized by the white scale,by trust, respect and security
The dark yellow sexuality is characterized by the outer core elements of the yellow color of manipulation, too selfish or take too much control of own pleasure. Dominate based on your own needs without reading the interaction with your partner.